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Expert Mental Health Counselling in Langley, BC
Affinity Counselling Services has been dedicated to empowering individuals, couples, and families since 1995. Our team of registered clinical counsellors combines traditional therapeutic methods with innovative approaches like Observed and Experiential Integration (OEI) to address anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and relationship challenges. With decades of collective experience, we prioritize client-centered care, offering personalized strategies to foster personal growth, emotional resilience, and healthier relationships.

Our practice is built on the belief that lasting change arises from understanding the root causes of distress and equipping clients with practical tools to navigate lifes transitions. We maintain strict confidentiality and adhere to the highest professional standards, ensuring a safe space for healing and self-discovery.
Services
Marriage Counselling Anxiety Treatment Trauma Counselling Anger Management ADHD Help Depression Therapy Coping Skills Family Therapy Couples Workshops Neurotherapy
Details
  • Year established: 1995
Highlights and features
  • We offer over 25 years of combined experience in clinical counselling and relationship therapy.
  • Our team includes Certified Gottman Therapists specializing in evidence-based couples therapy.
  • We integrate innovative techniques like OEI for rapid relief from trauma and anxiety.
  • Flexible evening hours accommodate busy schedules for individual and couples sessions.
  • We provide personalized treatment plans tailored to each client's unique life circumstances.
What people say
Life-changing therapy Expert Gottman-trained therapists Effective trauma recovery Personalized treatment plans Supportive environment
Services
Marriage Counselling
Our marriage counselling helps couples strengthen relationships through evidence-based techniques like Gottman Method Therapy. We address communication breakdowns, rebuild trust, and resolve conflicts constructively. Clients learn practical tools to enhance intimacy and navigate life transitions together.
Anxiety Treatment
Specialized anxiety treatment combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with neurotherapy to address generalized anxiety, panic attacks, and stress-related disorders. We help clients understand anxiety triggers and develop coping strategies for long-term symptom management in a supportive therapeutic environment.
Trauma Counselling
Trauma-focused therapy employs OEI (Observed & Experiential Integration) to process traumatic memories safely. Our counsellors help clients regulate emotions, restore relationships, and regain control after traumatic experiences through individualized treatment plans and compassionate support.
Anger Management
Research-based anger management programs teach healthy emotional expression and conflict resolution skills. We address underlying causes of chronic anger through cognitive restructuring and behavioral modification techniques, helping clients improve relationships and workplace interactions.
ADHD Help
ADHD treatment combines neurofeedback with behavioral strategies to improve focus and impulse control. Our personalized approach addresses executive functioning challenges, helping clients develop organizational skills and self-regulation techniques for academic, professional, and personal success.
People
Lawrence Stoyanowski
Co-Owner & Senior Therapist
M.Sc., M.F.T., R.C.C., C.G.T. with 30+ years experience in marriage and family therapy. Specializes in Gottman Method, stress management, and collaborative law coaching. Recognized globally as a Gottman Institute trainer.
Darren Wilk
Co-Owner & Couples Specialist
M.A., R.C.C. Certified Gottman Therapist with 35+ years experience. Senior consultant for Gottman Organization Canada. Specializes in trauma recovery, anxiety treatment, and men's mental health advocacy.
LaVerna Wilk
Trauma Therapist
M.C., R.C.C. Certified Gottman Therapist specializing in trauma, anxiety, and ADHD. Helps clients overcome depression and sleep difficulties through evidence-based interventions. Focuses on empowering clients to achieve personal growth.
Duncan O'Mahoney
Performance Specialist
M.A., M.P.C., C.C.C. Former professional athlete turned sports psychologist. Specializes in cognitive therapy for couples and performance enhancement. Uses empathetic approach to help clients overcome life obstacles.
Questions
What types of therapy do you offer?
We provide couples therapy, individual counselling, family therapy, and specialized programs for anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and anger management using evidence-based methods like Gottman Therapy and OEI.
Are your counsellors certified professionals?
Yes, all our therapists are registered clinical counsellors with advanced certifications including Gottman Method Therapy, OEI, and neurotherapy for ADHD treatment.
How can I book an appointment?
Call 604-530-2660 during office hours or use our online contact form. We offer weekday evening appointments to accommodate busy schedules.
Do you treat children and adolescents?
Yes, we work with youth and families, addressing behavioral issues, ADHD, and emotional challenges through age-appropriate therapeutic approaches and family involvement.
What makes your practice unique?
We combine traditional therapy with innovative techniques like OEI for trauma and neurofeedback for ADHD, along with certified Gottman relationship expertise for comprehensive care.
Do you offer couples workshops?
Yes, we host Gottman Institute-certified 'Art and Science of Love' workshops twice yearly, providing practical tools for strengthening relationships in a weekend format.